I am beginning to wonder what we New Zealand males are becoming. Firstly we hear that the All Blacks are being offered counselling to help them cope with being beaten out of the Rugby World Cup in the quarter finals. I have to say, that to me, is as bizarre as it gets.
These guys are supposedly fit, tough professionals. Professional sportsmen β and sport is about winning and of course losing. Sure they choked β sure they lost β but surely they can put the loss behind them and move on. My view is that calling in shrinks is pathetic.
And now we have got Trevor Mallard β Labour’s bovver boy. Labour’s big tough mouth who is great at dishing out the dirt on others. Clearly he can give it but he can’t take it.
One personal taunt, of exactly the same nature as he hands out and he loses his rag. He calls Tau Henare out of the house and whacks him. I must say Mallard must be equally pathetic at using his fists as he is at using his brain because Henare never had a mark on him.
So what is the outcome from all this? Trevor is to have counselling. Poor little Trevor has been under stress lately so he needs a shrink to hold his hand. His marriage has broken up and his Dad has died. Well sorry Trevor but about 60% of marriages break up and sooner or later we all lose our parents and we don’t go around thumping people or having to seek counselling.
Is this the sort of person we want as a Cabinet Minister β as a leader β as one who makes decisions that affect us all?
It could be argued, of course, that Mallard is an example of what the New Zealand male is becoming. I mean β if the All Blacks need counselling because they lose a test match β I suppose it follows that a Cabinet Minister thinks it is OK to seek counselling when he loses his temper.
We seem to be losing the concept of personal responsibility β of being personally responsible for our own actions. The All Blacks were over rotated β over reconditioned β we’ve heard it all before. Mallard had left his wife, lost his father and was under stress.
Excuses excuses. Whatever happened to “Pick yourself up β dust yourself off and start all over again.”
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